Well this will be short. I must say that life is what you make it, you are in control of your own good time. I recently thought that I was going to have a not so good time and it wound up being the exact opposite. Did everything work our perfectly? No, no and again no. But its all about the reactions to those things that are important and determine how you'll feel in that situation. I went in thinking that once I left things would be drastically different, that I had to change everything. And then someone pointed our to me, things don't have to change, if I want them to continue they can. I decided that I want them to, and I hope its not a unilateral feeling.