Dolce far niente= The sweetness of doing nothing. This is an Italian way of life. This is my way of life. I do have the art of nothingness down to a science. I put myself out there today, and I'm feeling nervous and anxious. The question that needs to be asked is, is it better to put it all out there and have concrete answers or is it better to pretend and not say what is really going on? Right now I just don't know.